The guy you are in love with has shown no interest in you? Learn how to make a guy want you and overcome all kinds of obstacles to being together. If he is still not interested, even though you have tried everything else, this article will show you how you can get him wanting more.
The question is often asked: “how do I make a guy want me?”
Because guys are different than girls, there is one key you must know before you can solve this problem: Guys need to feel they have control over the situation.
This means he won’t be ready for a relationship until he thinks it’s his idea and that YOU are just another ‘thing’ he wants. This is because guys are afraid of feelings, and they take a long time to grow comfortable with sex.
If you want him to like you, he has to feel that it was his idea all along. Once he thinks it’s his idea, the two of you can begin slowly building toward love and physical intimacy.
Guys are also suspicious creatures when it comes to sex. If you give too much too soon, they will resist.
Remember, guys aren’t going to be ready for a relationship until he thinks it’s his idea and that YOU are just another ‘thing’ he wants!
Here are 7 Tips On How To Make A Guy Want You
Tip #1: See him in a different light. If he is your friend, be there for him when he needs you and make time for him. Eventually, he will start to see you as someone special who cares about him (because you are). If he already likes you and wants more, then just continue doing what you’re doing.
Tip #2: Don’t make it obvious that you are flirting or interested in him, but do flirt a little bit now and then just to keep the door open should he decide that he wants something more from you. For example, if you’ve been making eye contact with him for weeks… go out of your way once in a while to say hi or smile at him.
Keep your distance for more than a few seconds, then re-approach him. This is the only way to let him know you’re interested without actually saying it.
Tip #3: Make plans with him like a normal friend would, but be sure to have one of them end up with you alone at some point. This is the time to flatter him a little bit and ask for advice on things that he knows about, like how to get into college, fix your car, etc. Flirting never hurts here either!
Tip #4: Let him know you are attracted to him in a playful way without leading him on (because you are not ready yet). This will show him that it’s okay to be attracted to you too. For example, every time he shows you a new move, ask him to show you again to do them better next time. Play with his hair sometimes and when HE does it back… look at the ceiling like you don’t like it. He will grab your hair again and when he does, look back into his eyes with a happy smile on your face.
Tip #5: Don’t be afraid to touch him every now and then. This is something really easy to do anytime (not just in moments alone) because guys love this stuff. The more you do it, the more he will want to grab you.
Tip #6: Be yourself around him and try to make him laugh. This is especially good if he doesn’t know you have a crush on him (because you don’t want to be that obvious).
Tip #7: Make sure that there are times when YOU are the one in control of the situation. This will show him that you are not desperate and can handle being around guys without losing control of your feelings.
If he is still not interested, even though you have tried everything else, the following tips will show you how you can get him wanting more:
30 Ways To Make A Guy Want You In His Life
Tip #1: Send a thoughtful card or email to let him know you are thinking about him. If he has any kind of feelings for you, this will do the trick!
Tip #2: This one is a little risky because it could backfire if he doesn’t like you… but life’s short, and sometimes, we have to take risks… kiss him!
Get to his house early in the morning and say something like, ‘I know you’re awake… come kiss me!’ It’s a little bit cheesy, but it will get his motor running. If he turns you down, just walk away and tell him you were joking and laugh about it together.
Tip #3: If the first two don’t work by midnight tonight, ask a friend to call him for you and ask if he wants to hang out with her. Let him know that this is a good way for the two of you to get alone time together (because it is).
Tip #4: Wear sexy clothes around him once in a while… it will make his heart pound!
Tip #5: When you are at some kind of event… like a party or something, ask him to help you with something (like if you need help picking out a new pair of earrings). If he does this right away, then make sure and thank him for being so helpful. This will make his night!
Tip #6: Hair flip. This is one of the most feminine and sexy things you can do to attract a guy.
Tip #7: Sometimes, all it takes to get what you want from a guy is just take the initiative and let him know your intentions. If you’re going out with a guy you like, just let him know you want to hang out with him. Whenever he’s doing something fun, invite yourself along.
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Tip #8: When you are together with other friends, there is an opportunity for them to talk to each other while you are there… then step away for a moment and let them know that you are okay with this.
This will show the guy that you like him, but it’s alright if he wants to be friends too because you have other people who love just as much! This is really important because it makes guys more comfortable around each other.
Tip #9: If your guy won’t tell you exactly how he feels about you, he likes to stay around you and does everything he can to hang out with you… don’t waste time. Just ask him if he wants to go on a date sometime.
Tip #10: Show up at his house with food and invite yourself over. When he says yes, just say that you want to talk about something important. When he sees you with the food, it will show him that no matter what happens between you, he is always guaranteed a great meal!
Tip #11: When you call or text your guy at night, don’t ask him how his day went or what his plans are for tomorrow… just say you were thinking about him.
Tip #12: If there’s a dance or some kind of social event coming up, ask your guy to go with you and let him know that you really want to spend time with him.
When he says yes, it will allow the two of you to dance close together (and if the music is right, you’ll be able to hold each other’s hands!).
Tip #13: Make sure that you act like a lady when you go out on dates with your guy and treat him with respect. Guys love girls who make them feel smart and important.
Tip #14: Be honest about your feelings… even if you don’t have any.
Tip #15: Let him know what you love about him. Tell him that he’s sweet or funny or thoughtful, and make sure to say it when he’s not expecting it! If you’re in his house, tell him that he keeps a great place because there’s always food around or that you really like how he cleans his room. If he’s funny, let him know that it makes you laugh and if he smells good… then just say ‘nice cologne.’ You get the picture, so don’t be shy!
Tip #16: Make a move once in a while. If nothing else has worked by the time it gets to this, then just make a move. If he’s standing up and you’re sitting down… get up and sit next to him. Then say something cute like ‘I’m tired of being so far away from you.’
If he’s walking towards the door or something, turn around quickly and walk right in front of the door to stop him from leaving… then say ‘don’t go without me.’
Tip #17: If you’re really close with each other (like best friends or something) and you know that he likes you a lot… make it obvious that the two of you have a special thing. Pick up things for him when he goes to get them himself, laugh at his jokes, compliment him when he needs it and act really happy whenever you’re around him.
Put your arm around his shoulder or something when you’re with all of your friends… then let everyone know that you guys have a special relationship. It’s cool because it shows the whole world that He likes you, but it also helps remind him how much you like him too!
Tip #18: If you’re so close to the guy that there’s a chance for you to share each other’s secrets, then make sure that you listen when he talks and don’t get upset when he has some things to say about other girls.
Tip #19: If you’re single, let the guy you like know that you will not be taken seriously until you are in a relationship.
Don’t make him think that he’s your only option or your personal backup plan… but also, don’t act desperate. It works best if it looks like being with anyone else is a completely unattractive option for you!
Tip #20: If you like this guy really much and you know that he’s open to being in a relationship, make it clear that you are ready. stop flirting with other guys or talking about hooking up because it will just confuse him.
Tip #21: Show off your personality. If there’s a song that you’re really into, write down the lyrics, and when you have a chance, sing it for him. If there’s a movie that you love and you know that he hasn’t seen it yet… invite him over to watch it with you.
Tip #22: Take an interest in his hobbies.
If he likes sports, act real interested when he talks about the latest game and if he likes to go out to the clubs or bars… then act like you’re really into dancing! Don’t forget to ask him frank questions, and don’t let him know that you already know about it just in case he’s asked someone else about it.
Tip #23: Make it clear that you hear what he’s saying to you.
If he talks to you about something important, then really listen and don’t just think about your response until after he stops talking. Make sure that over time… you get better at making him feel like his opinion matters (even if it doesn’t matter much) because guys love it when girls take an interest in their lives.
Tip #24: Don’t be afraid to flirt with him in front of your friends.
Make him look like he’s the one that you’re really interested in and if he gets upset about it… let him!
Tip #25: The best way to make a guy like you is by using good body language. It’s so easy for guys to say um, ‘oh, she doesn’t even like me’ when it doesn’t look like you’re interested in them, so show him that you are. Stand up tall and stick your butt out a little bit… he’ll know what’s wrong!
Tip #26: Make sure that no other girls are trying to get his attention. Don’t be mean to them but if they’re trying to talk to him… ignore it. If they’re not giving up on the conversation, then stand up and say something like, ‘hey guys! I’ll be right back,’ but make sure that you don’t leave the house or anything… wait until he comes over to your side of the room or says something about going somewhere else.
Tip #27: Make sure that he knows how much you like him. If you’re out with your friends and they’re asking for an explanation about what’s going on between the two of you, shrug it off with a quick, ‘oh nothing… he’s just my friend.’ Then when your friends go to talk to someone else or walk off, sneak a kiss on his cheek or something like that.
Tip #28: Don’t tell him everything about yourself right away. Take some time and make it so that he has to get to know you first if he wants to find out all of your secrets! If he’s nice enough to come over at night when you’re just home alone, then don’t tell him that you’ll be there… or if he’s nice enough to ask you out, then don’t tell him where you’re going. Keep some things to yourself, and it will make his interest in you skyrocket!
Tip #29: When he gives you compliments, try not to be too flirty or cute because it will kind of make it seem like your goal in life is being his girlfriend. When he compliments you, just say thank you and then talk about how hot it is outside or something.
Tip #30: The best way to get a guy to like you is by having some confidence.
Conclusion
You can now use these tips to make it so that you are dating the guy of your dreams and that he’ll keep on coming back for more! So what are you waiting for? Go ahead and get started!
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