In this blog post, I will be explaining how to understand a woman’s mind.
In order to do so, you have to first learn the difference between what she says and what she really means.
It is important that you don’t just focus on the words but also the tone of her voice and body language.
This can help you accurately identify if a woman is being truthful or not.
These tricks are essential in relationships because they give us some insight into how our partners might feel about things too.
If we know these tricks, it allows us to get closer with them and make their lives easier!
Let’s get started!
How to understand women’s mind
– The things that she says.
The first thing you need to understand is that women are not always 100% honest about how they feel.
She will say certain things like “I’m fine”, “It’s okay” or “Don’t worry about it”.
These phrases may seem harmless, but actually, these things might be a complete lie.
She wants you to believe that everything is going well but in reality, it might not be the case.
You should try and dig deeper into what she’s saying by asking her more questions or telling her how you feel.
Once she realizes that you care about her, she will become honest with you about any problems that she is facing.
– The way that she says things.
Another thing to keep in mind is the tone of voice that she uses.
For example, if a woman seems angry about something you did then you should try and apologize first.
Don’t immediately ask her what’s wrong or why she’s upset because she might not tell you the truth.
Instead, start off by explaining yourself and tell her that you’re sorry for whatever it is you did.
When she sees that you understand where she’s coming from then she will be much more open to talking with you about it.
– The way that she says things (Part 2).
When a woman is angry, she may not even realize that she’s being rude.
She can become overwhelmed with negative feelings and start acting in a way that isn’t fair to you.
If this happens then just try and ignore it because it probably won’t last long.
– Her body language.
If you want to know how to understand a woman’s mind, then it is also important that you look at her body language.
For example, if she seems angry about something then this could be because of the way that she holds herself or moves around.
You should try and pay attention to what type of movements she makes and whether or not they are negative.
If she’s rude then you probably won’t want to get too close to her because she might start being mean to you.
– Her body language (Part 2)
Another thing that you should keep in mind is how she responds when she is with other people.
For example, if your girlfriend is being mean to you in front of her friends then this might be due to embarrassment.
She might not feel comfortable opening up about any problems that she has with you.
You need to try and figure out what is really going on by talking with her after everyone leaves.
– Her body language (Part 3)
One final thing that you should watch for is the way that she starts acting when it’s time for you to leave.
Most women are clingy when they are in a relationship so she might be sad or upset if you have somewhere to go.
She will start acting this way because she doesn’t want to lose you and it’s important that you pay attention!
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Tips How to understand women’s minds.
1. if she talks about her ex-boyfriend it’s either to make you feel jealous or that she wants to bring him back.
2. if a woman loves you, you’ll not have to ask for sex from her because she’ll offer herself at any given time.
3. If a girl is playing around with her hair and touching your arms and shoulders, she likes you.
4. if a woman misses you, she’ll be all over you when you return to town
5. If a woman is not returning your calls or texts quickly enough, it’s because either:
a) There’s something else going on and she doesn’t want to tell you; or
b) She doesn’t want to talk to you anymore.
6. If a woman says “I love you” she’s either telling the truth or lying because she wants something from you.
7. If your girlfriend is hanging out with another guy that is not her brother or cousin there’s a good chance that she likes him too.
8. If she’s staying away from you because of another guy, her eyes are looking everywhere BUT at him when he’s talking to her.
9. if a girl is wearing revealing clothing while out with friends it means that she knows the other guys around are looking at her and thinking about having sex with her so she wants YOU to have the same thoughts about her.
10. if she grabs your hand it means that you are hers for the night.
11. If a girl answers the door in her towel, she just took a shower and might be interested in sex with YOU!
12. If she’s wearing makeup, especially red lipstick it means that SHE wants YOU to kiss HER!
13. If a woman buys you dinner, she’s interested in having sex with YOU.
14. if a girl touches your chest or arm when speaking to you it means she wants you to notice her and maybe engage in sexual talk with her…so make sure your bedroom eyes are working
15. If you ask a woman to go out with you and she says “I don’t think we should be going out together” this means that she’s already thought about it and said no.
16. If a woman really likes you, she’ll offer to pay for the first date because if SHE asks YOU out then SHE wants you to feel like YOU owe HER something.
17. If a woman answers the door in her bra, she might be interested in sex right there!
18. if she wants to have sex with you, she’ll offer to give you a massage.
19. If your girlfriend of one month does not know what you are doing Saturday night, it is because either:
a) She does not care; or
b) she is already doing something with someone else.
20. If your girlfriend of one month is going to a party with you on Saturday night it means that either:
a) She wants to make sure you will be committed to her by the end of the evening, or
b) she is going to meet someone else.
21. If a woman is trying too hard for you, she’s only interested in your money, fame, or success and not in you as a person.
How to understand women’s minds.
If you are reading this then you are probably a man, but what kind of man? You could be an average frustrated chump who can’t understand why women act the way they do. Maybe your buddy talked you into checking out ROK because his sex life has improved since he got in shape and stopped being so needy when interacting with girls.
You could be a man who knows the game and has decent to good success with women but doesn’t fully understand why his interactions go the way they do.
He might even barge headfirst into relationships without understanding key concepts about female psychology or how love really works. Then again you may be an advanced guy who has learned how to control the frame in his relationship using the dread game but realizes that there is simply more to what’s going on between men and women than just getting laid.
These are all valid starting points for absorbing the information below, but whatever your level of understanding you are sure to walk away with some new knowledge about the fairer sex. It might be frustrating to read at times, but keep in mind that you are gaining valuable insight into how the minds of beautiful young women work.
She doesn’t want to talk about her fears with you. She’s too busy trying to look like she has no fears.
(Read this before complaining about women not wanting to talk)
Women say they want a nice guy who is sensitive to their needs, wants to hear about their problems, and promises to never leave.
They don’t. They say one thing but act in another way. Women act like they want Mr. Sensitive until they’re actually confronted with him. Then they cheat on him or leave the relationship at the first available opportunity, or become passive-aggressive and try to nag the guy into submission.
Why is this? Why do nice guys finish last while assholes get all of the play?
Are women just heartless bitches who enjoy breaking good guys’ hearts simply because they can? Of course not. It’s nothing that simple.
Nice guys finish last because they’re afraid of confrontation. They’re afraid to rock the boat and don’t hold frame when it really matters during arguments.
Assholes finish first because they know how to keep a woman in her place, which is underneath them both physically and psychologically.
All women want a guy who will protect them from harm and provide for them financially.
Some of that is rooted in biology, but some of it is also rooted in the need to feel feminine and protected.
That is why women like bad boys.
They’re not necessarily looking for a guy who will beat them up (although some are); they want a guy who is strong enough to deal with her bullshit and won’t be pushed around by her nagging or emotional outbursts.
Nice guys are too available. They’re too understanding and they never disagree with their girlfriends, no matter how absurd what she’s saying is.
The problem with that is that there’s no chemistry between the two people because nobody has any passion for anyone else in the relationship.
If you’re nice to your girlfriend then you’re just one of the many guys who will come and go in her life.
You can’t build any rapport with a woman when there’s no edge in the relationship, because rapport is always built on commonalities between two people.
There cannot be any chemistry without some sort of edge to the relationship.
Chemistry is built on tension and lack of trust, not common interests.
We all want a woman who loves us unconditionally, but that’s not what we really need. What we really need is a partner who is willing to challenge us and disagree with us so that we can learn about ourselves and grow as people.
If you’re not acting like a jerk sometimes, then she won’t feel the need to act like a bitch sometimes. It’s only when you disagree with her and hold your ground that she feels the need to stand up for herself and voice her own concerns or desires in the relationship.
A lot of guys will complain that women don’t communicate well, but the problem is usually that they’re not communicating at all.
Women communicate through actions and sub-communications such as body language and facial expressions, not just through their words.
If you want your girlfriend to talk with you then you have to make her comfortable enough to be herself around you.
A lot of guys take that as meaning that they should never be afraid to express their feelings or affection for their girlfriend, but what it really means is that you should only express your feelings when she least expects it.
You don’t want her to know exactly how you feel all the time because then there’s no longer any excitement in the relationship.
There needs to be some element of mystery so that she doesn’t feel like she’s done everything there is to do with you, so that she still has some sense of discovery about what it is you’re thinking or feeling at any given time.
It may seem counter-intuitive, but being kind and respectful is actually more attractive to women than showing your ass and acting like a jerk all the time.
But that doesn’t mean you should be afraid of showing your emotions and letting her know what you’re thinking. All it means is that she needs to feel as though there’s something holding you back from loving or relying on her too much, because if she feels like you need her then you’re not going to be attractive to her anymore.
Men are the protectors, so it makes sense that women want their men to have some edge when they’re in a relationship with them.
The only reason they’re attracted to assholes is that they don’t know if those guys are going to be able to stand up for them when the chips are down.
They want a guy who is so self-assured that he won’t take their crap anymore, but they also want to know that if she needs him then he’ll be there for her.
To put it simply: women don’t love assholes, they just don’t want to be bullied by their partners.
Most likely, she’s put up with your crap for so long because you’ve not given her any reason to leave you. She knows that she can always try harder to please you so that you’ll stop being mean or disrespectful to her, but the truth is that it will never work.
Trying harder to please your partner is not an effective way of getting him or her to treat you better; instead, the only thing it does is give you more things to do for them so that they feel like they’ve earned your devotion.
The problem with this is that all women are guilty of trying too hard to please their partners and this is why they get walked all over.
The truth is that you should want her to love you unconditionally because you deserve it, not because she expects it from you.
If she doesn’t feel like she has to win your affection, then she won’t be desperate around you anymore. Your happiness will no longer be linked to her moods, and she won’t try as desperately to please you with sex or affection because she will be secure in the knowledge that you love her.
If you want a woman who doesn’t try too hard for your approval then it’s up to you to stop trying so hard to win hers.
Many guys have trouble understanding why their girlfriend is so much more affectionate after they’ve split up with her, but the fact is that she wasn’t trying too hard to please you along.
She was behaving the way she did because it seemed like you liked complaining about everything and being mean to her.
After all, if she loved you then why would it matter if you hated her life or were abusive to her?
Once you love someone, there are no takebacks. When they’ve broken up with you, though, the rules change because now she knows that she can treat you however she likes and doesn’t have to worry about losing your affection.
So you have to convince her that she doesn’t need to try so hard for your affection anymore because it is unconditional, and the best way of doing this is by loving yourself more.
If she knows that you’re happy with yourself – regardless of whether or not she loves you back – then she knows that her love isn’t what makes you happy anymore.