We all know that there’s no shortage of articles about how to make a woman crave you, but what makes a woman crave a man?
This article will answer this question.
Why would she want you?
The simple answer is that she’ll want you for the same reasons that you want her. If you make sure to make it impossible for her not to be attracted to you, then of course she will be attracted to you. This leads us straight into the subject of this article, how do I make a woman crave me?
Let’s say that you’re out on the town. You spot a girl, and she catches your eye. What do you do next? Do you walk over, confidently smile at her, extend your hand for her to shake, tell her your name and ask for hers? Then ask her if she’d like to “get drinks sometime?”
Are you out of your mind?
She’d think you were crazy. That’s the last thing that she wants, to have some guy come up and talk to her who’s just trying to hit on her. You need something else, what is it? Before we get into that, let’s establish one fact – when a woman is interested in you, she’ll let you know.
Looking for a sure-fire way to know if a woman is attracted to you?
Here it is: If she’s making eye contact with you and holding it for an abnormally long period of time. It could be seconds or minutes depending on how strong her attraction is to you and how well you know how to read her.
It’s also the quickest way for a woman to let you know that she likes you, without having to actually tell you.
How do I get a girl into bed?
Now that we’ve covered what makes a woman want a man, and established that there are ways for a woman to pretty much spell it out for you that she wants you, it’s time to address the actual topic – how to make a woman crave you.
Okay, so you’ve met a beautiful new girl who was checking you out on the street. You’ve got her attention now, but have no idea what to do next.
After she looks away, you realize that you haven’t got a single thing in your arsenal to make her want you, let alone make her crave you.
What do you do?
You need to approach her like she’s already attracted to you. This might sound weird coming from someone who just told the whole world that women will only approach men they’re attracted to, but it’s true.
Why?
Because a woman will be more likely to go out with you if she knows that you know she’s attracted to you.
That way, she doesn’t have to worry about how her date is going to go, because she knows already that you’re taking the initiative and it won’t be as awkward as usually – after all, you already know that she wants to be there.
So instead of asking her if she’d like to “get drinks sometime,” tell her that you’ll pick her up at a certain time, and then give specific instructions for where you’re going to meet. This takes the responsibility off of her shoulders and makes it easier for you both.
Real-Life Example:
If you’re at a bar, and you see that she’s checking you out from across the room, go talk to her. You don’t have to say anything about how good looking she is or anything of the sort, just tell her that it was nice meeting her and leave.
After all, if she really wants you, she’ll probably come and talk to you. After a few minutes go by and she doesn’t come over, walk up to her and ask who the guy is sitting next to her that keeps touching her hand.
This will get rid of any awkwardness that there might be when asking for a girl’s number, because you’re pretending that she already likes you. She won’t feel like you’re trying to pick her up, but simply asking for a number because you want to hang out sometime (which isn’t really false advertising, after all).
Do this more than once with the same girl if it seems like she’s not getting the hint – eventually, she’ll realize that this is too easy for you, and she’ll really want to go out with you.
(Side Note)
What if she’s absolutely NOT interested?
Sometimes, a woman won’t want to talk to you no matter what you do – that is, unless you’re Brad Pitt or somebody equally good-looking.
If this happens, don’t be discouraged – the next day you’ll probably have a completely different set of women checking you out, so just go talk to them. If you’re still not getting any luck, then go to a different location and try again – maybe something is wrong with the location that you’re in (e.g., it’s too loud or dark).
Regardless, if she doesn’t want to talk to you, it’s nothing personal. Just take the “no” gracefully and move on – it’ll save both of you a lot of time in the long-run.
The thing about this is that women will pick up on your desperation (and lack of confidence) if she’s not interested, so do everything like she already likes you.
Think about it this way: women will be more likely to do anything that you want them to do if they know that you have a lot of other options, so stop beating yourself up and go talk to somebody else.
If there’s one thing that I’ve learned from relationships, it’s this: as long as you’ve got other women who are interested in you, then the ones that don’t like you will be more likely to ask YOU out.
Don’t worry – she’ll come around eventually!
(Side Note)
If you go out and approach zero girls, then that means that you’re not approaching even when chances are high that they like you. After all, if they really didn’t like you, then they probably wouldn’t talk to you anyway – even if it’s just to tell you to go away.
This is also the reason why I suggest that you try to approach at least three different girls each day – if you can hit on at least three different girls, then it becomes much easier psychologically for yourself because it’ll feel like nothing special when approaching a girl.
By being in this mentality, you’re telling your mind that it’s okay to approach girls and get rejected, because you’ve already gotten over the “approach anxiety” hump.
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